Living Alone: Life without Girlfriend
This must be of interest for LA community. Received it in my mailbox and sharing it with all bcos it is beautiful expression of feelings strengthning the assumptions behind formation of LA community.
How is Life without Girlfriend!
1. You can stare at any Girl.......
2. You don't have to spend money on her.
3. You won't get boring result in ur board papers/ performance appraisals.
4. No girlfriend, no emotional blackmailing.
5. If u don't have a girlfriend, she can't dump u.
6. Having a girlfriend is hot, not having a girlfriend is automatically cool, and every one loves to be a cool guy.
7. This can be more to life than just waiting for the bloody phone to ring.
8. You won't have to tolerate someone else defining, "right" and "wrong" for u.
9. Girlfriend can get so possessive that you can't do anything according ur wishes anymore.
10. You can buy gifts for mom, dad, sis or grandpa instead of a girlfriend and have a happier family life.
11. You won't have to waste paper writing love letters. No more endless waiting for ur date to arrive at some weird shop place.
12. You can have more friends, as u will have more time for them.
13. You wont have to see boring love stories instead of sports.
14. You wont have to tell lie to anybody and, therefore, u'll sin less (finally going to heaven to see angels).
15. You can have good night's sleep-no need to dream about her.
16. You wont have to fight over having a 'special' friend with ur folks.
17. No nonstop nonsense (typical girlish crap).
18. You wont have drown in the pool of her tears (a tool for Emotional Blackmailing).
19. No tension.
20. You can be "urself"
21. You wont have to hide your telephone bills (Makes economic sense as well)....
Cheers
Surya LA
5 comments:
when you have a girlfriend, then you can understand whatever is written here is nonsense. girlfriend give you feeling of being alive and being happy, enjoying your time....
Totally agreed with roohijan
A common fact of any relationship - when it is good, it is good, when it is bad, it is ugly. Of course this also depends a whole lot on who you are and who you are with but basically single life in general is much easier due to the freedom and lesser amount of worries as you are only accountable for yourself.
There are pros and cons to being in a relationship and foregoing one. You definitely have more freedom being by yourself, but if being with a girl makes you happy, good for you.
I haven't had a girlfriend ever. It used to bother me alot when I was younger, but now I'm just resigned. I don't think it's in the cards for me, I can't make it happen, and you know what? I'm fine with that. As if I need a girlfriend to give myself validation.
Most people just get girlfriends for reasons of validation, status, and underlying co-dependency issues.
its good to have a girl for company
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